Comments on: Friendship http://fromtheothersideofthemirror.com/2009/06/27/friendship/ connecting the dots of what matters Wed, 09 May 2012 16:24:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Pamela Villars http://fromtheothersideofthemirror.com/2009/06/27/friendship/#comment-153 Wed, 01 Jul 2009 04:03:21 +0000 http://jt1anglais.wordpress.com/?p=496#comment-153 John, I can relate to this too.

Within the past 10 years, I’ve had two people I thought were my closest friends vanish. It’s hard not to question why, but who knows? The folks I have left are not going anywhere.

But I have a little hard knot in me that I still sometimes feel – I think it’ll be there forever. It reminds me how much I loved them.

]]> By: john http://fromtheothersideofthemirror.com/2009/06/27/friendship/#comment-152 Sun, 28 Jun 2009 18:36:00 +0000 http://jt1anglais.wordpress.com/?p=496#comment-152 Hi Mando, thx for your note, I guess I’ll chalk it down to c’est la vie, although I still don’t understand it. I guess we all have different ideas about what a friendship means. As you say, just concentrate on friends that give back as much as I do. That’s my mantra moving forward!

]]> By: elmundodemando http://fromtheothersideofthemirror.com/2009/06/27/friendship/#comment-151 Sun, 28 Jun 2009 18:20:40 +0000 http://jt1anglais.wordpress.com/?p=496#comment-151 Hey John. I’ve been through a similar “I thought we were good friends” experience. I had a friend who I had consoled and been a friend to while she was going through a hard divorce and lots of sleepless nights (including mine). Turns out that that didn’t matter. When I needed her when Ixchel was sick she completely blew us off. It was strange and it did hurt. I’m over it now, sort of. It sucks when it happens but now I’m better off for it. I just concentrate on friends that give back as much as I do. Sometimes it’s that simple. C’est la vie right?

mando

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